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HoW could you be With someone
that long, live With them,
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love them, enough to Want
to marry them, and not knoW?
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- Oh, he must've knoWn. I kneW.
- Well, he says he didn't knoW.
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- Come on.
- HoW could he not?
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HoW could you be together that
long and not knoW that?
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- Maybe it Wasn't true When they met.
- Of course it Was true.
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Oh, you don't just start sleeping
With Women, bang, like that.
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Oh, sure you do. It's like getting
allergic to straWberries, right?
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You eat straWberries all your life, and
then one day, bang, and you get hives.
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No, I do not believe people change
that much. And don't tell me they do.
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Don't give me that NeW York
psychological bullshit
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about hoW people are capable
of change. They are not.
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Which brings me back to my question.
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HoW is it possible to live
With someone
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and not knoW something
so fundamental?
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It's possible.
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It is possible to... It is possible...
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...Well, to love someone so much,
or to think that you
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Want to love them so much
that you just don't even see anything.
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You decide to love him.
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And you decide to trust him,
and you're in the marriage.
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And you're in the...
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You're in the day-to-dayness
of the marriage and...
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You sort of notice that things are not
the Way they Were, but it's...
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It's a...
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A distant bell.
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And then When things do turn out
to have been Wrong,
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it's not that you kneW all along.
It's just that you Were...
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...someWhere else.
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- You'd have to be living in a dream.
- Yes.
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Yes. So...
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And then the dream dies.
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And the dream breaks into
a million tiny little pieces
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Which gives you a choice. You
can stick With it, Which is unbearable,
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or you can just go off
and dream another dream.