1:35:02
And you?
1:35:10
What's wrong?
1:35:14
Charles and l are getting married.
1:35:23
He's a lucky man.
1:35:26
-Congratulations to the both of you.
-Goddamn it, Andrew!
1:35:30
lf you're going to succeed
at this thing you're trying to do...
1:35:34
...you've got to stop being
so damn deferential.
1:35:36
-l can't help being deferential. lt's built-in.
-Then change.
1:35:40
Change? l have changed.
1:35:42
l don't mean on the outside.
Change on the inside.
1:35:45
Take chances, make mistakes.
1:35:48
Sometimes it's important not to be perfect.
lt's important to do the wrong thing!
1:35:52
-Do the wrong thing?
-Yes.
1:35:54
Why? l see. To learn from your mistakes.
1:35:57
No. To make them!
1:35:59
To find out what's real and what's not,
to find out what you feel.
1:36:03
Human beings are terrible messes.
1:36:05
l'll grant you that.
1:36:08
l see. This is what is known as
an irrational conversation, isn't it?
1:36:13
This is a human conversation.
1:36:15
lt's not about being rational.
lt's about following your heart.
1:36:20
-And that's what l should do?
-Yes.
1:36:22
And you have a heart, Andrew.
1:36:24
l feel it. l don't even believe it sometimes,
but l do feel it.
1:36:30
And in order to follow that heart...
1:36:36
...one must do the wrong thing.
1:36:38
Yes.
1:36:45
Thank you.