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Just you. What do you need
to work it out?
:19:04
Those things are me. Do you understand
that? I can't separate them out.
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I mean, it might be hard for you
to accept, but the fact that you're
not Jewish is a real problem for me.
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I don't think so.
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Okay, okay, okay.
A-All I'm saying, Jake...
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is I think you should be honest
with yourself.
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Because I think if it
was just up to you...
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you would stick with this and see
where this relationship is going...
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but it's a problem for you because you
assume that all the people in your life
can't deal with that.
:19:30
- No, they can't.
- Well, give them a little credit, Jake.
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- It's the 21st century.
- "The 21st century"?
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What the hell does the 21st century
have to do with anything?
:19:37
This is you and me, right? I thought
we were supposed to be just having
a good time, keep it simple.
:19:42
- Well, that's my point. I'm having fun.
- I'm having fun too.
:19:45
This is a lot of fun.
Whoo! Fun!
:19:47
Well, exactly.
So why throw it away?
:19:55
Look, maybe you're right, but can't
you see that you're asking me...
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to risk losing everything
that's important to me...
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just to see if we work?
:20:05
I mean, I love you,
but-- but-- but--
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we're so different in so many ways that
have nothing to do with whether or not
you're Jewish.
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- What are you saying?
- I'm saying we have
totally different priorities.
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Look at your life.
:20:19
I don't think there's room in it
for what I've spiritually committed to.
:20:25
That is so unfair.
:20:30
Your faith is a huge part
of what I love about you...
:20:34
but you have to have some patience
for the fact...
:20:36
that it doesn't come as easily
for most people as it does for you.
:20:41
And you know what? You are never going
to find the kind of relationship
that I know you want...
:20:45
and you are never going to be the kind
of spiritual leader that you could be...
:20:49
until you learn to put
a little faith in other people.
:20:54
I'm not saying,
"Let's get married."
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All I'm saying is that I am
in love with you, and I want
to give it a real shot.