:12:01
Wouldn't participate in his life,
but they'd drive across three states
to attend his funeral.
:12:05
What's he wearing in there?
:12:07
I said his favouritejeans and
a T-shirt. They said, "No, a suit."
:12:10
So I said, "Okay, fiine. That black
St Laurent double-breasted velvet suit."
:12:12
- He loved that suit.
- I love that suit.
- Oh, I love that suit.
:12:15
- "Too loud," they said.
- A black suit?
:12:16
"Too gay" is what they meant.
:12:18
So now he's in one
of his brother's old suits.
:12:20
Hugo Boss, I believe.
:12:22
Death in Boss.
:12:24
So the black velvet suit
is still around?
:12:27
- Sorry.
- I just wish I could have
given him what he wanted.
:12:30
Joe wanted to be cremated...
:12:33
his ashes scattered to the wind
inJoshua Tree with...
:12:35
Don McLean's "American Pie" playing
really, really loud on a boom box.
:12:39
- Family said no.
- Why?
:12:41
- God.
- Ask her.
:12:43
Lord God,
bless this grave...
:12:47
and send your angel
to watch over it.
:12:48
Joe did not want
all this Gothic hocus-pocus.
:12:51
- Shh.
- I feel like I'm in The Omen.
:12:54
There's always great sadness
when we say goodbye to a loved one...
:12:58
especially one
so beloved asJoseph...
:13:01
struck down in his prime
by pneumonia.
:13:03
Pneumonia. Please.
:13:05
This is the hardest thing most of us
will ever have to face...
:13:09
to stand at the grave
ofa loved one.
:13:11
Lord, welcome our brother
to paradise...
:13:14
and may Your light
shine on him.
:13:17
- Amen.
- Amen.
:13:22
- Ican't rememberiflcried
- Shh.
:13:26
When lreadabout
his widowedbride
:13:31
Butsomething touchedme
deep inside
:13:35
The day
:13:37
The music died
:13:43
So, bye, bye
:13:46
MissAmerican Pie
:13:49
Drove my Chevyto the levee
:13:52
But the levee wasdry
:13:56
- Themgoodol'boys were drinkin '
- Goodbye,Joe.
:13:59
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