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- Do you love him?
- I like him.
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What will he say
when introducing you to his family?
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"This is Tilde. Sometimes in
a straitjacket, sometimes not.
:47:15
She's into reincarnation
and energies from outer space.
:47:18
And she has a drinking problem."
That'll be just fine, Tilde. Really.
:47:22
- What is it you want, Thomas?
- Do you love him?
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- I don't think so.
- No... Why are you with him then?
:47:31
- Must I love him to do that?
- That's a good answer. Cynical.
:47:35
If you prefer someone you don't love,
what is love to you, then?
:47:40
- Thomas, what do you want?
- Answer me: What is love?
:47:45
Love is what we live for.
Love binds it all together.
:47:50
Good answer. But rather illusive,
isn't it? Youthful, but okay.
:47:55
And it eliminates all
the contradictions of love.
:47:59
Do you realise what a pain you are?
:48:01
Love is what we yearn for when we
don't have it, and run from when we do.
:48:06
Love invades all the places
we'd like to be left alone.
:48:09
- Nonsense.
- Really?
:48:12
Why do those who preach love
live without it? Catholic priests -
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- Tibetan monks, nuns, mullahs.
They meet the world with empathy -
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- but they can't practise the love
they meditate into.
:48:22
Instead they're told not to step
on insects or they won't reincarnate.
:48:26
Love is normal,
and that's your problem. It's normal.
:48:31
Love explains everything.
Without love, you're unhappy.
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If your love is not requited,
you're unhappy.
:48:40
If you leave your love, you're
unhappy. Or if you're abandoned.
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In other words:
Love is great and important.
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Of course it is. But tell me,
when do you feel really happy?
:48:57
I'm happy when I sing.
When I drink red wine and sing.