:22:00
[All chattering]
:22:05
What are you doing?
Drinking.
:22:07
He's having Scotch.
Mom, I'm 23. It's fine.
:22:09
[Glass clinking]
What, what, what?
:22:11
(Sam)
Tomorrow, gonna go to shul,
gonna pray that everybody...
:22:14
is gonna have a happy...
:22:16
Dinah, you know,
since you told me
about computers...
:22:18
Mom, let him finish.
He's finished.
:22:21
I've become so...
:22:23
Then why do you
have to do this?
:22:24
There are so many other women
that you could go out with.
:22:28
And I've encouraged you
to branch out...
:22:30
in any other way
that you like,
but just not this.
:22:32
Why do you have to do this?
:22:34
What do you mean,
"do this"?
:22:35
Do what?
Incur the wrath of God?
:22:38
Why are you getting yourself
into trouble?
:22:40
I'm not getting married, Mom.
I'm just seeing
what's out there.
:22:44
You make it out
like we live in
the Warsaw ghetto.
:22:47
It's the Upper West Side.
We're strong in numbers here.
:22:50
So you're still planning on
marrying someone Jewish?
:22:52
Yes. Sure. Okay?
:22:56
But then I don't understand
why you need to
go down this road.
:22:58
You may end up
getting hurt for nothing.
:23:00
Or worse, hurting her.
:23:03
Don't you value
your culture and your history?
:23:06
Well, it's not one
or the other, Mom.
:23:08
But if you're smart enough
to know...
:23:09
that it makes sense
to marry someone from
the same background...
:23:12
and it does,
any of the studies
will show you that...
:23:14
as far as
the divorce rates go.
:23:15
Then you should be
smart enough to know...
:23:17
not to start something
where nothing can come of it.
:23:19
You're only going
to make a mess.
:23:21
I can't even believe
what you're saying.
:23:23
Do you hear
what you're saying?
:23:25
What?
You're a therapist.
:23:26
You would never tell that
to a patient.
:23:28
Not true, not true.
:23:30
I encourage my patients
to have relationships...
:23:32
within their
respective faiths.
It's easier.
:23:36
I encourage them to
go to mosque, or church,
or whatever.
:23:42
I think religion is...
:23:47
paramount in a person's life.
:23:50
Okay, well, yes...
:23:54
but encouraging them
is different from
discouraging them.
:23:57
And I know that
you draw the line there.
:23:59
Would you tell
one of your patients
not to date someone...