:02:00
Of course she's gonna lie to you.
She's a nice person.
:02:01
She doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
:02:03
What else is she gonna say?
She doesn¡¯t even know you... yet.
:02:09
Luckily, the fact is,
Just like the rest of us,
:02:12
Even a beautiful woman doesn't know
what she wants until she sees it.
:02:17
That's where I come in.
:02:19
My job is to open her eyes.
:02:21
Toby!
:02:23
Oh, my god!
:02:28
Is this what you are looking for?
:02:30
Basic principles,
:02:31
No matter what, no matter when, no matter who,
:02:34
Any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet.
:02:38
Just needs the right broom.
:02:49
You can not use what you do not have.
:02:51
So if you're shy, be shy.
If you're outgoing, be outgoing.
:02:54
I'm not outgoing.
That's ok.
:02:56
She may not want the whole truth,
But she does want the real you.
:03:00
She may not want to see it all at once,
But she does want to see.
:03:03
So tonight, when you wonder what to say,
or how you look, or whether or not she likes you,
:03:08
Just remember,
she is already out with you.
:03:11
That means she said "yes"
when she could've said "no".
:03:15
That means she made a plan
when she could've just blown you off.
:03:19
So that means it is no more your job
to try to make her like you.
:03:23
It is your job not to mess it up.
:03:27
Uh?
:03:29
Shoes are hot.
You went to the place I told you, right?
:03:31
Yeah,
but I don't think they are really me.
:03:36
"You" is a very fluid concept now.
:03:40
You bought the shoes.
:03:41
You look great in these shoes.
:03:44
That's the "you" that I am talking about.
:03:48
Now the key tonight is "hang back".
:03:51
Give her plenty of place.
:03:54
If she lingers at a photograph,
move on.
:03:59
But maintain the visual.