:03:00
She may not want to see it all at once,
But she does want to see.
:03:03
So tonight, when you wonder what to say,
or how you look, or whether or not she likes you,
:03:08
Just remember,
she is already out with you.
:03:11
That means she said "yes"
when she could've said "no".
:03:15
That means she made a plan
when she could've just blown you off.
:03:19
So that means it is no more your job
to try to make her like you.
:03:23
It is your job not to mess it up.
:03:27
Uh?
:03:29
Shoes are hot.
You went to the place I told you, right?
:03:31
Yeah,
but I don't think they are really me.
:03:36
"You" is a very fluid concept now.
:03:40
You bought the shoes.
:03:41
You look great in these shoes.
:03:44
That's the "you" that I am talking about.
:03:48
Now the key tonight is "hang back".
:03:51
Give her plenty of place.
:03:54
If she lingers at a photograph,
move on.
:03:59
But maintain the visual.
:04:04
All right now.
It's supposed to be 64 F and clear tonight.
:04:07
So when you leave the club,
walk a little.
:04:09
Ask her what she thought about the show.
:04:11
What was her favorite photograph?
Why that one?
:04:14
And when she answers,
don't be looking at her mouth.
:04:18
Don't be wondering what she looks like naked.
:04:21
Listen to what she is saying and respond.
:04:24
Listen and respond.
Listen and respond.
:04:26
That way, when it's your turn to talk,
:04:29
You have something better to say than "I like your mouth."
What was your favorite one?
:04:35
The, uh... Elephant, definitely. Yeah.
:04:37
And all of a sudden,
We're on Date Number Two.
:04:50
No way.
:04:53
We are going back in there.
You have to smile.
:04:56
In case you didn't go to high school,
Hitting is a good thing.